my children can be really good sometimes and then naughty others i have tryed the staires when they are naughty but it never works has anyone got any good tips

Sticker charts worked for my 2 boys aged 5 and 3, you have to be really firm about it though and not back down! When I stuck a sad face on the chart my eldest through one almighty paddy! earnt another sad face too! The other thing that really helped esp with my eldest was omega 3 caps- they increased his attention spam and he was so much more less highly strung,even stopped being as damn hyper!
Good luck anyway!

one at 6 one 3 and my little baby 1 and they are a propper hand full

My daughter Grace is 4 and I had terrible problems with her behaviour until last year.

She attacked her sister who is 5 and bit and kicked me on a regular basis. I hated to take Grace out as she would be so naughty and totally ignore me if I told her off.

I took her to GP who suggested I changed her diet. I cut out junk food and e numbers and now she eats healthy meals and a limited amount of sweets and treats.

1 year on Grace is a different child I honestly believe the food I was giving her was the cause of the bad behaviour.

I confiscate the childrens favourite toy if they misbehave and I find this works for me.

Two of my grandsons hsave Aspergers & can be little horrors. The only thing that seems to work with either of them is to take time out just for them. Put them on your knee away from the other kids & tlak to them until they can tell you (if they know) why they are feeling so angry.
Having said that, it doesn't stop them as they 'forget' & don't actually realise they are being naughty a lot of the time.
Good luck though, hopefully they will grow out of it.